No preamble; had a scan at 7+4. There was a baby, with a heart beat & it & the sac were the correct size. There’s be no further bleeding, my EDD is December the 28th.

Good, right?

There are a number of logistical challenges that come with the possibility of a third child. Good things, but things that need to be planned for in good time - like now.

See the problem?

I won’t have another scan until 12 weeks - and as of today (9+1), baby refuses to play ball with the doppler. Well either that or it’s dead. I don’t like being placed under pressure to make decision based on the presumption of a live baby in 31 weeks.

And I feel ill … really, really shit. Worse than last time. It doesn’t seem right that I could be hosting a dead embryo & feel this ill, but of course it is perfectly feasible.