500 and 500 more.

Must have a genius baby or could it be that the sonographer really screwed up my scan last week?

Baby seems to have grown 2 weeks worth in a week - the doctor was diplomatic & said growth isn’t always linear blah blah but conceded that the results were confusing. Baby now meaures mid-21 weeks for everything (I’m somewhere between 21+2 & 21+6).

Anyway more importantly, everything looks okay, no detectable abnormalities, no soft markers - she looked at the great vessels, brain ventricles, cord insertion, hands & feet in great detail. There’s slightly high impedance in one of the uterine arteries but no notching. We’re going to watch and wait. 

Two and a half weeks until the next scan.

hardly reassuring. It was the shittiest scan I have ever had (& I’ve had a lot).

Cervix is fine, pretty much the same as with Jasper (35.9mm) & no funnelling.

UA dopplers were okay - left side was excellent, right side a little less good but nowhere near even ’starting to worry’.  

Abnormalities - no obvious abnormalities. Good huh? Except I have no faith that she actually looked at the structures she claimed to, it was all over so quickly. She certainly didn’t measure anything in the brain or kidneys (maybe they only do this if the look abnormal?). Heart is definitely okay, we got an excellent view. While she said the cord insertion was normal she didn’t report on whether it had three vessels or mention placental position (I know it is high posterior from previous scans, but it is still pretty crap that she didn’t record it). Fluid levels were normal. Abdominal wall was normal, as was the spine but she didn’t spend much time looking at it.

Baby was in the weirdest position I’ve seen but was moving. They didn’t do nasal bone or nuchal thickness which they do at the FMC anomaly scan (god I wish we could afford to go back there*).

Growth - she measured BPD, HC, AC & FL. With the exception of femur length all were at the very bottom of normal - HC was below the 5% confidence interval, BPD on 5% and AC <10%. The FL was almost at median, oddly enough. Even when I take into account that my dates are four days behind theirs I’m very worried - the baby is between four & nine days behind.

I got no explanation or comment from the sonographer. I’ve called my midwife & consultant’s secretary & they are going to ask her to review the measurements, I don’t have another appointment until 24 weeks.

So there you go … can’t say it has done anything for my mental health & I don’t think I’ll be sharing the news anytime soon.

We’re leaving for the scan in an hour. I have sweaty palms, constantly running to the loo, churning stomach, headache, I feel breathless & dizzy, my heart is racing. I’m close to tears. My hands are shaking. My feet are cold, I don’t know what shoes to wear.

I woke at 4am & couldn’t get back to sleep, I’ve dopplered the baby twice already. It doesn’t reassure me, I feel better when I feel him move but he’s very so quiet this morning. He was active all day yesterday, I felt okay, I didn’t even doppler before I went to bed.

I messed up my clexane & hit a capillary, I’ve only done that a couple of times in god-knows how many shots. I watched a huge green bruise appear and spread. It hurts.

I fucking hate this, I really do. I want to scream. I won’t say anything to anyone, I’ll swallow it & smile. Is this how other people feel?